Take care of the hardest stuff first, then the rest will be easy. As a result, you become more courageous. Enjoy that beautiful moment as if it were your last.
The reason I share this is to highlight to you that victim mentality exists in the mind. It doesn’t exist outside, in the world. Only inside my mind.
They had to go first! Not going to lie, it took me years at working on this and it was a process of letting them go from my mind through meditation, and a process of building new habits to give my mind evidence I was worthy and I could change!
It answers my question about why people are born into the world when it seems we merely suffer through life and eventually die. We are born as material beings so that we can be resurrected as spirit and soul.
What I have come to realize through meditation is that happiness occurs when our mind is not obstructed by negative thoughts and false beliefs. When the mind is cleared from worries, we are naturally happy/content.
We live our lives as directors and actors who create the film called ‘my life’ from the minds we inherited from previous generations. That movie stirs up many emotions within us. Everyone can see their own movie, but no one else can.
Daily meditation helps me manage an office job. For example, I can recall where my projects are at and people’s names are fresher in my mind. My short and long-term memory is clearer.
That’s when I decided to drop my arrogance. And I worked with people to revise my writing based on their feedback. We had a great meeting that day, and everyone, including me, completed a paper.
Have you ever played RPG video games? You level up skills to enhance your character’s ability to perform the tasks you want to develop. I have found, that my every thought and every action is dictated by habits – a repeated thought / action which becomes automated.
